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Friday, May 11, 2012

Most Ridiculous Sex Myths



False belief based on experience of others or information read about sex is available at many places like, the daily papers or pamphlets in the streets etc. If you had the same false beliefs or doubts and had plans of clarifying  them out, here below are a few points to dispel all doubts or myths.

1. Men think more about sex than women: Don't blame the men. Women think about sex as much as a man does. Women may be controlling more in expressing the same.  If you're eighteen, then there are chances you might be sleeping, eating and dreaming sex. After a certain age, men and women's sexual urges mellows a bit. And it's a complete no-no to weigh out sexual prowess. This also doesn't mean that only men make the first move for sex. Women do as well.  And nothing can be more turning on for the man than a woman in control.
2. Women don't like porn:  RubbishWomen enjoy pornography too. Quantum may be different.  Not all women want rose petals on their bed. And not all women want to be whisked away into a gentle world of "love-making". And if anyone thought only men can conjure up fantasies, then you are definitely misread and misguided.
3.  Size of organ matters: It a not a law that what's bigger has to be better, small could be strong and beautiful.  The intensity of woman’s pleasure does not depend on the size of man’s organ. Only about 4 centimeters (external one third) of the vaginal canal contains sensory nerves for arousal and orgasms. So why waste time trying to stimulate the internal two thirds of the vaginal canal when there's not going to be any response? Women should focus the attention to more important matters i.e. more on how to have sex.

4.  If she doesn't make pleasure noises, then she's not enjoying the sex:  Some women are vocal, some are not. This doesn't mean she's not enjoying it. Don't expect her to scream out all the time. We know it's an ego boost for you, boys. But it just doesn't work that way. Sometimes, silence is very good.
5. An orgasm for women is supposed to be earth shattering and if not so, you're not normal:  It is a big 100% myth. Some women have orgasms and don't know about it. Pelvic muscles don't contract as much for some women. However, after a point of arousal they do feel relaxed and content. So if he failed to "rock" your world, then don't panic. You're still very normal.
6. Every woman has a G-spot:  Yes, it's true every woman has a G-spot, but not every woman's G spot is an erogenous zone. So if you've been on a quest to find out the sweet spot, then you're wasting your time. Focus on the other erogenous zones. She'd be so much happier.
7. The withdrawal traditional method won't get you knocked up (make woman pregnant):  All it takes is a tiny sperm to get woman pregnant. And that can happen through pre-ejaculation also. Most pregnancies happen because of the withdrawal method. This isn't a fool proof plan, so be cautious and use preferably modern methods – as these are better options. 
8.  You won't get pregnant if you have sex while menstruating:  This is a long standing myth that most people believe in. It is more probable that a woman will not get pregnant while menstruating but not impossible. Sperms can stay alive inside you for several days, especially if you have a shorter cycle. 
9.  Love foods will get you more happy:  Many believe that oysters and strawberries spice up one’s sex life.  Sorry to break your belief women, it's nothing but a placebo effect. As in, if people believe oysters and chocolate are supposed to be sexually stimulating foods, they very well might become aroused after consuming them. 

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