False belief based on experience of others or information read
about sex is available at many places like, the daily papers or pamphlets in
the streets etc. If you had the same false beliefs or doubts and had plans of clarifying
them out, here below are a few points to
dispel all doubts or myths.
1. Men think more about sex than women: Don't blame the men. Women think about sex as much as a man does. Women may be controlling more in expressing the same. If you're eighteen, then there are chances you might be sleeping, eating and dreaming sex. After a certain age, men and women's sexual urges mellows a bit. And it's a complete no-no to weigh out sexual prowess. This also doesn't mean that only men make the first move for sex. Women do as well. And nothing can be more turning on for the man than a woman in control.
2. Women don't like porn: Rubbish. Women enjoy pornography too. Quantum may be
different. Not all women want rose
petals on their bed. And not all women want to be whisked away into a gentle
world of "love-making". And if anyone thought only men can conjure up
fantasies, then you are definitely misread and misguided.
3. Size of organ matters: It a not a
law that what's bigger has to be better, small could be strong and
beautiful. The intensity of woman’s
pleasure does not depend on the size of man’s organ. Only about 4 centimeters
(external one third) of the vaginal canal contains sensory nerves for arousal
and orgasms. So why waste time trying to stimulate the internal two thirds of
the vaginal canal when there's not going to be any response? Women should focus
the attention to more important matters i.e. more on how to have sex.
4. If she doesn't make pleasure
noises, then she's not enjoying the sex: Some women are vocal, some are not. This doesn't mean she's not enjoying
it. Don't expect her to scream out all the time. We know it's an ego boost for
you, boys. But it just doesn't work that way. Sometimes, silence is very good.
5. An orgasm for women is supposed to be earth shattering and if not so,
you're not normal: It is a big 100% myth. Some women have orgasms and don't know about it. Pelvic
muscles don't contract as much for some women. However, after a point of
arousal they do feel relaxed and content. So if he failed to "rock"
your world, then don't panic. You're still very normal.
6. Every woman has a G-spot: Yes, it's true
every woman has a G-spot, but not every woman's G spot is an erogenous zone. So
if you've been on a quest to find out the sweet spot, then you're wasting your
time. Focus on the other erogenous zones. She'd be so much happier.
7. The withdrawal traditional method won't get you knocked up (make woman
pregnant): All it takes is a tiny sperm to get woman pregnant. And that can happen
through pre-ejaculation also. Most pregnancies happen because of the withdrawal
method. This isn't a fool proof plan, so be cautious and use preferably modern
methods – as these are better options.
8. You won't get pregnant if you have sex while menstruating: This is a long
standing myth that most people
believe in. It is more probable that a woman will not get pregnant while
menstruating but not impossible. Sperms can stay alive inside you for several
days, especially if you have a shorter cycle.
9. Love foods will get you more
happy: Many believe that oysters and strawberries spice up one’s sex life. Sorry to break your belief women, it's nothing
but a placebo effect. As in, if people believe oysters and chocolate are
supposed to be sexually stimulating foods, they very well might become aroused
after consuming them.
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